Background of the marriage: ( In a nutshell) We were married in Nov. of 2002, after living together for a year, and as any newlyweds very much in love an ready to start our lives together. (This was my wife's third marriage an my first.) In the first coming years, Life was grand.
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I found out 9 years ago to the date about my wife having a PA with what I thought was my best friend. I was the best man in his wedding and all that. They texted each other 1000' of times a month, had the affair, etc.
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It has been a year since my wife cheated on me. To give you guys my back story I caught my wife cheating on me a year ago. We were married for 10 years and have 2 kids together. I gave everything in that marriage and never felt so betrayed in my life. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
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This happened 9 years ago, before you were married? Look, I get your pissed, I know I would be hurt, mad, and want revenge. And sickly, I would want to know everything, as much as it would hurt. I would not listen to other posters and immediately end your marriage. You have a lot to fight for. 25 years is a lot to just throw away.
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Loss of my mom 29 years ago hit me hard.We were close and was her only child.My dad shot her in the chest in cold blood during an arguement.He was very abusive to her,was taken back in every time.Tried get her to leave for a better life and would not listen.I was 16 at the time when she was murdered and found her dead on the floor after I came home from work.Did get justice for it,dad got a ...
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This story is very long and complicated. I cheated on my wife 13 years ago, my guilt allowed me to confess. It was messy but we reconciled, I dont think she ever truly dealt with at the time and I believe she may have been cheating on me before and after I cheated on her. Last year in June I found pictures online with what appear to be my wife ...
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There was a thread on the SI about a woman who hid a long term affair and was a great wife for ten years until the H found her secret flash drive. She ended up taking her own life, possibly when he could not forgive. It may be good to enlist her parents as watchdogs for changes in her mood.
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It was also 9 years ago and we had many happy years prior and after. We are closer and stronger in recent years than we ever have been. I don't know what to do. All the work we put into our marriage feels like a lie. We spent years in therapy to stay together but she didn't have any intention of saying she had an affair.
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She doesn't go fast so there is no worry about missing the birth. There is plenty of warning. Her previous 4 labours have been the exact same. Day 1: 4 minutes apart. Day 2: 3 minutes apart. Day 3: 2 minutes apart. Day 4: 1 minute apart. Day 5: 30 seconds apart, water breaks and immediately pushing for 2 or 3 hours.
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Your world is both devastated and destroyed, although you survived your kids passing, you are very strong. So now you have had a decision thrust in your face to make, a decision you never wanted. Your wife had an affair, nine years ago, and foolishly never came clean. Certainly her time to come clean was in marriage counseling, but instead she ...
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